Thursday, April 29, 2010

Do you think marriage is still needed in today's society? Why/why not?

i dont think marriage is needed but its nice to have someone you could grow as a person with and share a life with. People are so much more independent nowadays i dont think there is a need for marriage. Its nice to feel secure though with the one you love. however nowadays people don't even care about that they just mostly care about themselves and make themselves happy and no one can get in their way and if they feel like someone is then thats when problems start and divroce time come. It would be nice though to live on your own but i would get lonely.

Do you see marriage in your future? Why/why not?

i dont see marriage in the future marriage, marriage is so overly rated, people are so independent and get annoyed easily and dont need an extra "baggage" as they call it. The divorce rate is going higher and higher. People just dont seem to want a marriage anymore they would live with each other rather then get married, i guess people dont want to go through the paper work an all that, or if they get a divorce they dont have to worry about paying for it. Its a hassle to many people. i see marriage in America fading more then other countries.

Thursday, April 22, 2010

Who did you choose for your presentation and why did you choose her?

Maya Angelou is hailed as one of the great voices of contemporary black literature and as a remarkable Renaissance woman. She began producing books after some notable friends, including author James Baldwin, heard her childhood stories. shes a great writer shes done so much, shes a remarkable women that has done so much in her life. she even came to Bergen community college. its really unbelievable shes started as a cocktail waitress and now shes successful writer. we choice her because she has a great story behind her success and she achieved much from starting out from the bottom.

Can women achieve balance of being perceived as both powerful and feminine in today's society, or are those images mutually exclusive?

in my opinion i feel that its more expected for women to be feminine and if they have that strong personality then its not that accepted. i see this everyday at my job when women come with their husbands and they boss their husbands around or they yell at them. its crazy but it happens and when it does it doesn't look nice. But i feel that single mothers do have to be both feminine and masculine because she has be both parents and its hard but yes it does happen. There are some women i know that masculine things such as fixing their car if it breaks down because they have no one else to come and do it and that's being both masculine and feminine.

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Free choice :)

i was thinking about getting a kitten but thinking about all the responsablity makes me not to with my busy schedule school and work im never home plus me having to clean it is so nasty. But i do want company when i'm home i love cats to much, i was thinking about adopting one it also will teach my responsibility more too and ill a friend with me in my house. Not to sure still thinking about it. i was thinking about going to the shelter and adopting a kitten im afraid if i bring it home and its starts peeing i dont know what to do because im a clean freak. Anyway love this weather so glad the rain is over i was so sick of it. I cant wait till summer comes i want to go to Florida so bad. :)

women to be homosexual than for men

In my opinan i feel women are more accepted to be more bi-sexual than a man because men like to see women doing sexual things with other females i guess it turns them on. Man care so much about their man hood and try to do anything possible not to look gay, act gay, say something gay, order girly drinks, etc. Man always want to look macho and that they can do anything but when someone finds out their bi its like a step down in society i guess and people would start to think o because his bi then that means he isnt so much of a man. that my guess im not sure what the real reason is but im guessing it brings them down in a way in society its not looked up so much. Man still want to looked at as men even though their gay or bi. To me if someones gay that means they love a person for who they are not what sex they are, they love them as a person. Which is a positive thing not a negative thing. Being loved for who you are not what sex you are. :)

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Free choice :)

I cant wait till the summer comes, i just want to go lay on the beach the whole day with my Family and friends. I wish it can quicker. i want to try Yoga too i heard it really helps with so many things. This weather is getting annoying. Oh i watched that new movie last night Called Green Zone wasnt a great movie i feel asleep lol. I actually wish i never to go watch it, i would rather clean my apartment :) Anyway its Saturday!!!!! im so excited!!! The weekend is Finally here but the weather sucks. Its all good ill make my weekend go great! have gReat weekened everyone!!! :)